Thursday, March 12, 2009

M Alive!!!

Hey guys..Hope life is treating u all well. The reason that I am not writing regularly is that I do not like anything I write. There are a few posts in draft mode and several which have gone to the thrash! N then of course the lazy bug bites me n so I don’t even attempt !
It’s not right that I simply vanish…n so thought I ll keep u guys posted that I’m very much alive n will post whenever I come up with decent reading material!

Meanwhile..wat is it with some people??? Therz some who want to pretend that everything and everyone about their life is PURRFECT and the rest who what to WHINE about everyone and everything! (No) complaints (galore) about the hubby/bf, the in-laws, the friends, the work, the length of weekends, the children, the snow, the rain, the increasing job-insecurity, the pay-cut, the hair-fall, the boredom, the hectic life, the acne, cooking decisions, ever-increasing waist-line, lack of time, too much time…..and the list goes on n on n on !
Can someone please enlighten these people about Striking the Balance!

26 comments:

Ramya Ramadurai said...

good to know you haven't forgotten this space!

ceedy said...

If they strike a balance you will loose your coveted position as an Agony Aunt...why would you want them to do that?

broca's area said...

acne??..lol

people always believe "grass is more greener on the other side" which is not true...!!..

tc:)

divya said...

true..hey keep writing!!

Sukanya said...

heyyy :) even i'm not able to write anythng worthwhile.. hmm.. something in the air i think..

Vrijilesh Rai said...

Its not that everyone is balanced or want to be. We cant be so. Just that we show to the world what we 'want to be'.

cm chap said...

Good to see you :)

Well i guess this feelg of nt wanna write anytg goes in rounds for all blogger. I guess I jst got out of that. Hope same for you as well ASAP.

Preethi said...

well said ... I have a friend who whines so much too.. she is a close friend.. if she lived close by she would have me breaking something on her head.. but for now she just has to put up with me yelling on the phone :P something else she can whine about ;) its just in some people's bones I think.. I have know this friend for ages but haven't been able to change her!! :P
Btw keep writing.. and don't you dare disappear into long silences!!

Ranjani said...

lol! are you admitting to looking for crappy advice?!!!

Solitaire said...

There are some people out there who think their life is perfect??????

Jack said...

Pavi,

Thank God you are back. You are right, we should stop complaining in life and take it as it comes. Looking forward to your views in my space.

Take care

rayshma said...

is it spring for u, yet?

The Furobiker said...

whine whine whine! Thats the most njoyable part of the day :D

Unknown said...

Hi Pavithra,

Dont think you know me as such. I read ur blogs. Liked them, you emote really well and i kind of can connect to it.

By the way, we know 2 common people. Vivek and Neelanjan. Vivek and I worked in the same project at Wipro. He told me about you. Neelanjan and my husband were roomies back during Engineering and we all are batch mates from same college. There are few other trivial common things, will share it sometime later.

Chalo...Keep up the good work. Keep blogging.

Take care.

Regards,
Roopa

Toon Indian said...

I guess we need to chill out a bit..blogging is not just about ranting, and crying hoarse over petty issues!!!

Ranjani said...

Hey! I don't have a great recipe for cheese fondue, but I will suggest melting chocolate (good quality choc with a cocoa % of at least 70 or higher) add some vanilla extract (or a vanilla bean)and a teeny spoon of instant espresso and melt it over a double boiler before you transfer it onto your fondue bowl. Serve it some fruit/ pound cake/ marshmallows.
If you're going to make a cheese fondue, make a basic rue, add some dry white wine and use good Gruyere cheese (it's a yummy swiss cheese that melts beautifully) and season it with freshly cracked pepper and teeny bit of nutmeg...
Hope this helps. If my instructions sound too vague..let me know!

Ekta said...

then they wont remain people...will they?:-)

Ekta said...

then they wont remain people...will they?:-)

Pavi!!!! said...

@galadriel : i won't...ever.
n very good to know that neither have u :)

@Ceedy: the Agony Aunt position is coveted ya,but i dont like playing it all day long!

@Broca: yaa..no one ever cribs to u abt acne??? or shows-off their clear skin???

Pavi!!!! said...

@Divya: thanks..i will! n welcome here :)keep visiting!

@knatch: u said it!im pretty convinced that there is indeed sumthing in the air! sowhen u gonna resume?

@Vrij: whoz asking for perfect balance ALL the time..just once in a while atleast!

Pavi!!!! said...

@CM-chap: thn:( ya,hppng slowly i guess!

@Preeti: ya..its easier if its a close friend who u can scream at...nehi?
n im TRYING not to disappear!

@Ranjani: i feel duh:( i didnt u'stand ur comment!

Pavi!!!! said...

@Sol: YES!!! there are! mabbe its wrong that i find them MORE irritating!

@Jack: thanks for the kind words.will visit u.

@RayRay: The weather was awesome until yester...but its going back to cold tomo :( But the days are gettin longer n im loviiiiiiiin it!

Pavi!!!! said...

@Abhishek :Welcome here! n u love whining???

@Roopa: Think ive see ur scraps on vek's orkut page! we shld touchbase offline! i want to know wat all Vek told u and wat all are the common things!!!
n ya thanks for the kind words.will dropinto ur space soon:)

Pavi!!!! said...

@Rahul :hmm..ya..okay!!!

Pavi!!!! said...

@Ekta: i thot humans were balanced(tho not perfectly!)

aMus said...

now this rant was just perfect...now come and talk to my kids...