Tuesday, June 30, 2009

What do you do???

When you have to work on a friendship , that’s lasted 9 years(n that too alone)
When the friendship matters a helluva lot
When you are taken for granted ‘coz you are loved
When the other person doesn’t even u’stand what the fuss(read anger) is about
When they assume that you will be “okay” with anything they do
When your sure that they will be “okay” with anything that you do
When they get so upset that ur mad at them
When they seem to be clueless on how to set things right
When they say they hope that you know that you are one of their most fav people in this world
When you actually know that that’s the truth
When they donno what else to say/do to make things right
When you just like that forget to be angry
When all you want to do is share a hug n a laugh (but don’t want to give in so easily)
When u know this drama will reccur a zillion times like it already has in the past!
When u know NOTHING will really change..not even in a zillion years!

23 comments:

rayshma said...

well... u just go ahead and give them that hug! bcoz YOU want to. bcoz it means that much more than sulking or whining or being angry! bcoz... u forgot to be angry! :)

broca's area said...

am confused!!....

Kiran said...

Brilliantly worded Pavi! I really dont know what else to say .. except that this struck a chord - straight with the heart!

What would the world be without friendship? And what would friendship be without all this drama??!!!

♪♪Happy Go Lucky♪♪ said...

then that would be the best example of friendship so i would leave it the way it is...

♪♪Happy Go Lucky♪♪ said...

by the way, im back to full fledged blogging, so will be a regular to your blog..

Pavi!!!! said...

@RayRay : ya i think i will give him the hug..across the seas n time zones!

@Broca: welcome to my club!

@kiran: thanks.ya,i guess it wldnt be as much fun minus all the drama!

Pavi!!!! said...

@Harini: really?
n welcome! will visit u soon.

Anonymous said...

Then it means that its time for you to change your feelings towards that so-called 'friendship'. 9 years is a long time to wait for things to change..Can you really afford to waste anymore time?

Shruti said...

ohh u have the answer :D just dont want to give in that easily huh? Both are ok with anything the other does.. if no one is here to interfere.. all's good :)
send the hug and the smiles :) and all will be beautiful once again.. without question marks :P

Preethi said...

Agree with Raysh.. give them a hug and do it because you want to... when someone means so much whats one drama? Whats a zillion?? so go on girl.. zap the hug across seas and all will be well again :)

cm chap said...

Go ahead and be as you were all these years :)

Cosmic Joy said...

It appears that there is nothing wrong with keeping the status quo .. after all you must be used to it by now :)

aMus said...

go on now, send that hug over!

is all resolved? :)

Jack said...

Pavi,

LOL. What a mess created by false ego - who should be first to extend hand or hug. Come on, invite him or her over and have a heart to heart talk over a glass of beer or wine. Then of course big hug to sort out all for all the times to come.

Take care

Unleashing Random Thoughts... said...

everything you've said here, that's happening with you guys...sounds like a great friendship where you can just be urselves with each other - fight, argue, share, care, expect, give etc etc ..u know better :)
- Karma.

Meira said...

You're talking about the average male. They don't understand our tears or confusion usually. But they're not a bad lot. Despite their confusion about almost everything we do :D
Hugs to you.

Pavi!!!! said...

@CG: no no..i hvnt waited for 9 yrs for things to change...i said this drama has repeated itself several times...n if only it was so easy to change feeligns twrds a person.
also i dont yet fel that this is a waste of time.

Pavi!!!! said...

@shruti, preeti & cmchap: i sent them..the hugs n smiles..and am so nervous now!

Pavi!!!! said...

@cosmic: u wld think so...but sumthings hurt just as much as they did the first time ..u know.

@suma: in progress...hug sent..n waiting eagerly!

@jack: ur rite..therz some amt of ego @ play as well.i've sent the hug...

@karma: ya..im hopin thsi is wat good frienships are made of!

Pavi!!!! said...

@meira: ya...men and their traits! phew!
[i'm sure they are sayin teh same thing about women]

Ranjani said...

what brilliance!! I can completely relate to this...:)

Pavi!!!! said...

@ranjani :) thanks!

Unknown said...

hmm...
it seems like a hug is not going to be satisfactory. What you need to do is give a glomp.
A glomp is basically a combination of a hug and a tackle.

So go ahead, get a good head start, run as fast as you can, jump, tackle, hug.